There is such a thing as going back in religion, after making a good profession. Men may run well for a season, like the Galatians, and then tum aside after false teachers. Men may profess loudly, while their feelings are warm, as Peter did; and then, in the hour of trial, deny their Lord. Men may lose their first love, as the Ephesians did. Men may cool down in their zeal to do good, like Mark, the companion of Paul. Men may follow an apostle for a season, and then, like Demas, go back to the world. All these things men may do.
It is a miserable thing to be a backslider. Of all unhappy things that can befall a man, I suppose it is the worst. A stranded ship, a broken winged eagle, a garden overrun with weeds, a harp without strings, a church in ruins – all these are sad sights; but a backslider is a sadder sight still. That true grace shall never be extinguished, and true union with Christ never be broken off, I feel no doubt. But I do believe that a man may fall away so far that he shall lose sight of his own grace, and despair of his own salvation.
Now what is the cause of most backsliding? I believe, as a general rule, one of the chief causes is neglect of prayer. Of course, the secret history of falls will not be known till the last day. I can only give my opinion as a minister of Christ and a student of the heart. That opinion is, I repeat distinctly, that backsliding generally first begin with neglect of prayer.
Bibles read without prayer, sermons heard without prayer, marriages contracted without prayer, journeys undertaken without prayer, residences chosen without prayer, friendships formed without prayer, the daily act of prayer itself hurried over or gone through without heart – these are the kind of downward steps by which many a Christian descends to a condition of spiritual palsy, or reaches the point where God allows him to have a tremendous fall.
We may be very sure that men fall in private long before they fall in public. They are backsliders on their knees long before they backslide openly in the eyes of the world. Like Peter, they first disregard the Lord’s warning to watch and pray; and then, like Peter, their strength is gone, and in the hour of temptation, they deny their Lord.
The world takes notice of their fall and scoffs loudly, but the world knows nothing of the real reason. The heathen succeeded in making Origen, the old Christian father, offer incense to an idol by threatening him with a punishment worse than death. They then triumphed greatly at the sight of his cowardice, but the heathen did not know the fact, which Origen himself tells us, that on that very morning he had left his bed chamber hastily, and without finishing his usual prayers.
If any reader of this paper is a Christian indeed, I trust he will never be a backslider. But if you do not wish to be a backsliding Christian, remember the hint I give you-mind your prayers. J.C. Ryle