A Flattering Backbiting Tongue

Text: Ps 5:9

  • Intro:
    • We have been studying the tongue.According to Jas 3:8 it is an unruly evil. Today, we are going to study the flattering, backbiting, piercing .  
    • Notice the unruly evil of a:
  • Flattering tongue – Ps 5:9 – “they flatter with their tongue.” 
    • Don’t flatter others. 
    • If you flatter others, your children won’t know how to judge character [Job 17:5].  
    • And don’t believe others when they flatter you. 
    • They’re trying to trip you up to get to you [Prov 29:5]. 
    • Be particularly careful of a woman who will flatter you [Prov 2:16; 7:5]. 
    • Look how the strange woman in Prov 7:21 brought the young man down with flattery.
  • Backbiting tongue – Rom 1:30 – look at the company backbiters keep in Rom 1. 
    • To backbite is to slander, reproach or speak evil of someone who is absent. 
    • Don’t talk behind other peoples’ backs. 
    • If you can’t tell them straight to their face, then don’t say it. 
    • In the Old Testament, a man’s righteousness was demonstrated, in part, by how he kept his tongue [Psa 15:1-5]. 
    • If someone is backbiting you, Prov 25:23 shows you how to handle them
    • “The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.” 
    • You’re going to see a lot of evolutionists scatter when they come face to face with the Creator after all the lies they’ve told about him.  
  • Piercing tongue – Psa 57:4 – David said, “My soul is among lions: and I lie even among them that are set on fire, even the sons of men, whose teeth are spears and arrows, and their tongue a sharp sword.” 
    • You are seeing this kind of tongue on display every single day now. 
    • In Prov 12:18, Solomon said, “There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword.” 
    • In both of these verses, the perpetrators, if they could, would kill others with their tongues. 
    • In fact, they are literally trying to destroy them with their words. 
    • We say about a person with this kind of tongue, “He is always cutting people down.”
  • Conclusion:
    • If someone flatters you don’t believe him for a second. 
    • They’re setting a trap for you.  If someone is backbiting you, don’t react. 
    • But when you see them, let them see your angry countenance. 
    • And know for certain that if you are trying to live in a right relationship with God, there will be those who will speak against you with a piercing tongue. 
    • It just goes with the territory. 
    • You, on the other hand, should never resort to any of these three tongues.

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